tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6652575928982915171.post4204667791204078921..comments2023-10-15T10:30:23.338-04:00Comments on For My Master: Homehis_new_pethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09314053620439788412noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6652575928982915171.post-79004646099501470562008-09-09T15:12:00.000-04:002008-09-09T15:12:00.000-04:00Hey Talgot and Bluebell,Thanks for your responses!...Hey Talgot and Bluebell,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your responses! Both of you are right: dypareunia (painful sex) can be a physiological problem and can be treated with kegel exercises and muscle relaxation techniques. Thanks for the input Talgot. :)<BR/><BR/>Fortunately, for me, this was not my issue...but rather some emotional issues and a tendency to be overly anxious. <BR/><BR/>To Bluebell:<BR/>Thanks so much for your comment too. Nice to have someone my age reading, and going through similar stuff. <BR/><BR/>Things moved pretty quickly with me and Master (at least I felt they were quick)...he was probably not happy with having to wait months for sex, lol....but I think that especially if this is your first D/s type relationship...go slow. A good Dom will wait for you and ease you in. :)<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your support, I hope you come back.his_new_pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09314053620439788412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6652575928982915171.post-50459390396271328612008-09-07T09:17:00.000-04:002008-09-07T09:17:00.000-04:00(I hope this makes sense and doesn't sound odd - I...(I hope this makes sense and doesn't sound odd - I'm a bit under the weather and haven't slept)<BR/><BR/>I think its definitely possible that you tensed up because of emotions. I don't trust others easily and if I put myself in a more vulnerable position with someone whom I'm not ready to let-in figuratively and/or am not 100% sure I want to have sex with them, sex has been painful, even if I'm wet. At least you recognize your emotional strain now.<BR/><BR/>I've enjoyed reading your blog (I found it through LiveJournal). You have a lovely writing style. We are the same age and - I think you mentioned this - its nice to read someone's blog who is transitioning from BDSM fantasy to reality starting out with a more experienced dom. I am still talking to my potential dom, though.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I hope you are able to work things out. Take care-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6652575928982915171.post-12667735100577207782008-09-02T23:18:00.000-04:002008-09-02T23:18:00.000-04:00sorry to tell you hon, but painful sex is not beca...sorry to tell you hon, but painful sex is not because of emotions. You need to ask a gyno about it. People call in to loveline all the time http://www.lovelineshow.com/<BR/>complaining about painful sex and it is usually a muscle convulsion that can be treated. Don't feel like there is more going on than necessary. hope this helps.<BR/>talgot from new_subs_n_doms on ljAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com